why we determined to homeschool

sharing extra about how lengthy we intend to homeschool, and why the heck we’re doing it with just a bit over a month left of the varsity yr. 

Hello pals!

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For right now’s publish, I needed to share somewhat bit extra about our homeschool journey and what’s occurring. I’ve alluded to the truth that we’ve had a tough time the previous few months and it’s been tough to navigate how and what to share. I’ve at all times been open with you guys in the case of my life, however the aim of the weblog has at all times been to share MY expertise; not my youngsters’s. It’s a tough line to stroll, particularly after they’re an enormous a part of my life and I really feel like so lots of you’re part of our household. On the identical, I by no means need them to really feel like their privateness has been invaded by what I share right here, so I’ve at all times tried to take a fragile strategy to my content material, particularly as they’ve gotten older.

The nutshell model is that this: we ended up transferring Liv to a different personal faculty in January. We have been all combating the mind-boggling quantity of homework, assessments, and assignments. It was particularly onerous along with her competitors dance schedule. We switched studios and reduce her hours in half, and she or he was nonetheless up till not less than midnight each night time (for the previous 2+ years) making an attempt to complete all the things for college. I’m an enormous believer in onerous work and I believe tutorial rigor has its place, nevertheless it was an excessive amount of for everybody. So, she switched and has been thriving.

When she switched colleges, it was the primary time P hasn’t had her large sis in school, which was difficult for her. The Pilot additionally retired, which was an enormous transition, and she or he began to have extra frequent stomachaches. (Her abdomen has bothered her on and off for years, which has at all times apprehensive me since she had severe reflux as a baby and was on Prilosec and Zantac, which has been recalled for terrifying causes.) She noticed a number of docs, had an ultrasound, her abdomen was deemed “wholesome,” and their solely suggestion was to place her on a PPI once more. She was additionally doing CBT weekly, and generally twice per week. Her abdomen ache and anxiousness obtained so dangerous that she missed many days of college, and we have been right here making an attempt to maintain up with the insane quantity of homework, classwork, and assessments.

The Pilot was house for retirement and was educating her the content material, ensuring she accomplished the large packets of classwork, and taking her to highschool for assessments. He had return to industrial airline coaching and I couldn’t fathom solo parenting, working, and making an attempt to maintain up with all the faculty work she was lacking, so I requested her to both select to return to highschool or we may pull her out, and she or he mentioned, “Please homeschool me.”

I by no means meant to be a trainer, however I’ll do something for our infants and if it’s what P wants proper now, I’m going to do it.

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Additionally value mentioning right here that I made a decision to do a Food Sentivity Test (and another practical labs) and obtained to the foundation reason behind some intestine points, and her gluten sensitivity was extreme. No surprise her abdomen was hurting :/ Since she began the protocols and eliminated gluten, her abdomen ache has tremendously diminished.

Our plan now:

– She’s on the waitlist for Liv’s new faculty however realistically gained’t be capable to get in till fifth grade

– We’ll homeschool till then and if she decides to return, that’s nice, and if she doesn’t wish to, that’s okay, too.

The humorous factor is that I was actually cautious of homeschooling. Pre-kids thought to myself, “How on earth can a mother or father anticipate to show their youngsters extra successfully than a trainer?”

In the course of the ladies’ time in class, we’ve had some extraordinary lecturers who’re all the things lecturers ought to be. They love youngsters, love what they’re educating, they’re above and past. However on the identical time, some lecturers are…not good. They are saying weird issues in school, disgrace youngsters in entrance of their friends, and this occurs in a personal faculty setting ALL the time, when you’re paying on your child to be taught by instructors who don’t appear to love youngsters in any respect. A overwhelming majority of the time, we spent the three to 4 hour block every night time educating anyway, as a result of they weren’t taught the content material throughout their lessons.

Rising up, I additionally thought that homeschooled youngsters have been most likely awkward as a result of they don’t have as a lot social interplay. The truth is that all the homeschooled youngsters I’ve met are variety, articulate, pleasant, and extremely sensible.

Although I’ve seen pals homeschool and type of daydreamed about how how enjoyable it might be, I didn’t contemplate it a chance as a result of I earn a living from home, juggling consumer calls, content material creation, podcast interviews, Zooms, IHP work, and so forth. I didn’t really feel like I may add one other issues to my plate, however I didn’t even assume twice about it once we obtained thus far. I’ve shuffled my schedule round lots so that almost all of my content material creation is finished over the weekend, and the sweetness about homeschool is that it solely takes round two hours every day at this age.

This publish is already tremendous lengthy, so I’ll share one other publish quickly with the curriculum we’re utilizing and the way we construction our days.

Thanks on your kindness and being so wonderful over the previous few months. It’s been a tough yr in some ways (this is only one of them) and being right here with you all every day is a serious vibrant spot. We completed our first full week of homeschool and I’m feeling fairly excited and hopeful about it! I’m additionally grateful that we get to spend some additional time collectively and are wanting into all the cool homeschool actions that Tucson presents!

xoxo

Gina